Our family is disgusted with this situation and frankly wants to know the truth of paternity for the other girls…a few of whom do not look anything like the father. If my brother won’t “man up” and find out the truth himself a family member who cares about him will. I would be very upset to know a person covertly “tested me” or “spied” upon me but sometimes you need to “get down and dirty”. A future divorce would not be surprising, and he loves them all as his own but for sanity sake I would want to know. And in the horrible prospect of illness it would be a necessity to possibly save the child’s life! The children never need to be told; obviously the oldest black child will figure it out soon enough which is a true travesty for such a lovely little girl; making her the innocent victim and will possibly and probably challenge her future emotional status.

Just to add a note; I was once married and completely faithful and became “happily pregnant” with a cheating husband’s child. I could not believe this “pig” wanted a paternity test as proof; especially with his grotesque indiscretions. I would have gladly had a paternity test done, unfortunately I had a miscarriage but thankfully wised up and left that monster. If by my cheating the husband or “told father” would want a paternity test I would hope that I would have been honest and told the truth; everybody suffers with this situation; and especially the child if it is obvious. My thoughts, Regards